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6 Self-Care Habits to Start the New Year Off Right

Deb Hipp

The last few years have been a bumpy ride for many Americans due to the pandemic, rising inflation and other stressors. As the new year begins, many of us are eager to find ways to enhance our overall physical and mental wellness.

By adopting self-care habits, you can tap into optimism, relaxation and a more positive outlook. Practicing self-care regularly can also help you manage stress, lower your risk of illness and boost energy, according to the National Institute of Mental Health.

Not sure how to start adding self-care habits to your daily routine? Find inspiration in these practices you can adopt to start enhancing your life this year.


Practice Gratitude

It’s easy to get caught up in the chaos of daily life. Making a habit of practicing gratitude can help train our brains to notice the positive rather than focusing on the negative aspects of life.

Feeling gratitude on a regular basis can boost immunity, reduce risk for depression and anxiety, and lead to a better night’s sleep, according to the Mayo Clinic. Taking time to be grateful may also lower the risk for disease and help ease chronic pain.

To get started on your gratitude practice, all you need is a spiral notebook and a few minutes a day. Write down five to 10 things you’re grateful for each morning. Your gratitude list might include items small or large, such as “I’m grateful that the sun is shining today,” “I’m grateful for my good health,” or “My coffee is delicious.”

Want a double dose of daily gratitude? Try writing a second gratitude list before going to bed to put positive thoughts in your mind before you drift off to sleep.

practicing gratitude


Restore Body and Mind with Massage

Getting a monthly massage can be a great self-care habit to start the new year off right.

The benefits of massage are many, according to the Mayo Clinic, and may include:

  • Stress, tension and muscle pain relief
  • Relaxation
  • Improved immune function
  • Lowered blood pressure
  • Reduced anxiety
  • Better sleep

To reinforce your dedication to this new self-care habit, consider signing up for a monthly subscription at a local massage studio. That way, you’ll get in at least one massage a month, with possible discounts on additional massages.

If the cost of a massage is prohibitive, check with local massage schools for discounts on massages performed by students. You can also look into self-massage techniques using foam rollers, tennis balls, massage guns, massage chairs or other massage tools.


Enjoy Daily Walks

By taking one 30-minute walk a day, you’ll meet the Centers for Disease Control’s minimum recommendation for at least 150 minutes of moderate-intensity aerobic activity per week.

In addition to providing time to clear your mind, walking daily can help you lose or maintain weight, ease joint pain and boost immunity, according to Harvard Health.

Daily walks could even potentially add years to your life. One study found that adults who walked at least 7,000 steps a day experienced a 50 percent to 70 percent lower risk of all-cause mortality compared to adults who walked fewer than 7,000 steps per day.

You don’t have to walk alone, either (unless you want to). Ask a neighbor to join you on daily walks, or join a walking group that meets one or two times a week to build a social aspect into your routine.

couple taking a walk


Get a Good Night’s Sleep

Getting enough sleep each night is essential to maintaining good physical and mental health. An adequate amount of sleep can help you maintain a healthy weight and avoid diseases such as diabetes and heart disease, according to the Office of Disease Prevention and Health Promotion.

People in their 50s and 60s who don’t get at least six hours of sleep each night may also be more likely to develop dementia as they age.

If you struggle to fall asleep or sleep through the night, you can take steps to stave off insomnia. Try avoiding caffeine in the evening and turning off your phone, laptop and other blue-light-emitting devices at least one hour before bed.

Does your mind race with thoughts the moment your head hits the pillow? Learn to let thoughts go by focusing on taking 10 deep breaths with long exhales. This signals to your body and mind that it’s time to relax and restore with a good night’s sleep.

A white noise or nature sounds sleep machine may also help you fall asleep faster. You can also download a sleep, meditation or relaxation app to your phone for guided assistance.


Join a Fitness Class

Going to the gym at least a few times a week does more than help with your physical fitness. There are social benefits, too—especially if you participate in group exercise classes such as yoga or aquatics.

Fitness classes provide an opportunity to meet new people and make new friends. Just being around people on a regular basis can boost your mental health, especially if you’re retired and lack a structured social network. Socializing regularly can also decrease feelings of loneliness and help keep your mind sharp as you age, according to the Mayo Clinic.

In addition to cardio workouts, incorporate two or three days of strength training using weights, your body weight or resistance bands to build muscle and keep bones strong as you age. By participating in this regular self-care regimen, you’re taking good care of both your body and mind.

group yoga class


Perform Random Acts of Kindness

Performing a daily random act of kindness doesn’t just benefit the recipient. When you’re kind to others, your actions can also impact your own body and mind.

Being kind to others can:

  • Increase self-esteem
  • Boost serotonin, dopamine and feel-good endorphins to improve mood
  • Decrease levels of the stress hormone cortisol
  • Lower blood pressure

The best part about this self-care habit is that it’s easy: Hold the door for someone. Smile at people on the street, in the coffee shop or at the grocery store. Compliment a customer service employee for their service.

The kinder you are to others, the better you’ll feel about yourself. Plus, the recipients of your kindness may be inspired to pay it forward, creating a ripple effect of kind acts.

Join the New Year’s Self-Care Challenge

Take your pick of self-care habits from this list, start applying them to your life, and see if you start to notice positive effects.

What are your favorite self-care habits? Tell us in the comments. Your suggestions could help others lead happier, healthier lives in the year to come.

20 Responses to "6 Self-Care Habits to Start the New Year Off Right"
    • Stephanie | January 31, 2023 at 8:10 am

      Good article. I’m putting, at least four into practice.

    • Kamlaker (JAY) P RAO | January 8, 2023 at 5:29 pm

      The best part of practicing these do not cost any money and you can do them on your own time.

    • Eva e Stack | January 8, 2023 at 10:15 am

      Each day I try to do to something that I don’t want to do ( a chore), something that I want to do and something for someone else.

    • Karen | January 8, 2023 at 8:24 am

      I’m going to give some of these tips a try. It’s time for some positive change in the world, and if I can be a little part that’s great 😃

    • Gerald king | January 8, 2023 at 7:04 am


    • Tammi Jeffers | January 7, 2023 at 8:32 pm

      Practice loving yourself and be the best you, you can be.

      • Extra Mile Staff | January 9, 2023 at 8:42 am

        Love this advice! Thanks for sharing, Tammi.

    • Magic G. | January 7, 2023 at 7:32 pm

      I appreciate reading this article. Thank you.

      My self-care habits which help me through the day are:

      Talking to my body to give it direction, encouragement, and gratitude. Going deeper, I also talk to my cells, for they are the basis of my body. Our cells work 24/7 to keep our body functioning properly, and I do not want to take my cells for granted, as they are important to my physical life.

      Another self-care habit is to focus my mind to be positive, and to remember to be happy in the moment, as that moment is your life.

      I recite this phrase when I have to make a decision: “See for myself what brings me contentment, clarity, and peace’, as that is the path to follow.”

      Thank you allowing us to share and contribute to your article. I hope this will help others in their self-care habits.

      • Extra Mile Staff | January 9, 2023 at 8:37 am

        Thank you for sharing these self-care habits, Magic!

    • Evangelina Quintana | January 7, 2023 at 5:22 pm

      Thank you for such an excellent self-help article to read! Taking part in social group Zoom meetings has helped me during these cold winter months when I’m not outdoors as much. Introducing a sense of humor during the Zoom meetings can help break the ice. And help cheer up some of the attendees who are feeling depressed, negative, etc.

      • Extra Mile Staff | January 9, 2023 at 8:39 am

        We’re so glad you liked the article, Evangelina! Thank you for sharing.

    • Charlotte Nelson | January 7, 2023 at 4:25 pm

      Perfect positive ideas, thank you!

    • Roseann Merchant | January 7, 2023 at 1:45 pm

      When I deal with customer service people in any and all capacity, I thank them for their service , wish them well and end with telling them “to be safe.” I sometimes compliment people when I am out if I see they have on a pretty garment or outfit!

      • Extra Mile Staff | January 9, 2023 at 8:41 am

        Great ideas for random acts of kindness, Roseann! Thanks for sharing.

    • Ruth E Davis | January 7, 2023 at 12:03 pm

      I enjoy 5 of the 6 self-care habits. I am really trying to apply these habits in my daily activities. The article was very helpful. Thanks!

    • Frank Frieri | January 7, 2023 at 11:11 am

      I will start with 20 min on bike and 15 min on tread mill machine.
      And try too get more sleep

    • Barbara Jenkins | January 7, 2023 at 10:28 am

      Once a month I have my hair and nails done at a solon. Sitting in a massage chair while having my pedicure really relaxes me.

    • Harvey Wine | January 5, 2023 at 11:42 am

      I loved this article because it is so positive and heaven knows how much we need this. Thank you for sharing.

      • Extra Mile Staff | January 6, 2023 at 8:20 am

        Thank you for the nice comment, Harvey! We’re glad you enjoyed the article.

    • Kamlaker (JAY) P RAO | December 3, 2022 at 11:32 am

      Being Kind and grateful does not cost you time or money. A daily walk for 30 minutes is another good activity that helps mentally and Physically with so many benefits.

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